It really has gone so quick. I knew this prize trip would change mine and Jake’s life and I’m so grateful for all the experiences and opportunities we have been given along the way. It’s always been my dream to travel after graduating, but I started to come to terms with it never happening as talks of settling down, getting a house together and marriage were priority and ‘the thing to do next’.. but it’s funny how life turns out sometimes: it was meant to be.
Know people say I’m very lucky in life and ‘flukey’ but I honestly think my positivity, confidence and willingness to try new things is what gets me where I am today, not luck as such just pushing myself further.. Everyone knows Jake is my best friend and changed my life the day we met (forcing me to face a ridiculous fear of trains just to see each other again – he’s made me stronger from the start) but now years down the line we have shared and seen some beautiful things that will stay with us forever.
“You can never cross the ocean unless you have the courage to lose sight of the shore..”
Just looking back now at photos it really was a mad end to 2013.
“A wise traveler never despises his own country.”
Believe me. It’s not been easy at times, you really can be in the busiest place, surrounded by people yet still feel ever so alone. We have really missed home at times, missing loved ones, family and friends has been the hardest part especially my pooch!! Missing important events back home having both gained new nieces and nephews when return. Even missing my own sisters and jakes best friends wedding was a struggle. But it’s the understanding and occasional “miss you and make the most of it” from those people that gives you comfort knowing all will still be there when you return home and to make the most of here and now.
So to those who I’ve met along the way…
It really has been an emotional last few days, one of the downsides to travelling is having to say goodbye – I’m so terrible at it, much prefer to say “see you soon” as you really never know when you may cross paths again?!
My family and friends we met / made at the start of our trip, and the amazing people I’ve met during my time working here… When travelling you find these incredible people from all around the world (who I’d never otherwise have met) their stories, their journeys there life experiences and advice was inspiring. They really do seem to disappear from your life as quickly as they entered.
Just want to special mention my ‘Aussie’ family who have literally been amazing and welcomed us with open arms when we randomly turned up thousands of miles away from home; you really can count on family anytime anywhere even if they live on the other side of the world! They’ve kept us safe, nothing was ever to much to ask and supported us more than we could have ever imagined. Forever indebted to them and hope to return the favour when they visit England…. Which they will, “wedding invites will be in the post” haha.
But it’s never easy, with the time difference, giant seas AND land between us, or the promise that there’ll be a good few years until another face to face meeting again HOPEFUL, such important friendships relying on Facebook messages, scheduled Skype calls and a good internet connection is crazy and to some isn’t a ‘real’ friendship… but in my eyes keeping hold of a good memory with a person who made being so far away from you’re comfort zone is someone special.
“Forget all the reasons why it won’t work and believe the one reason it will”
So to all those who we’ve met while travelling, THANK YOU. You’ve changed my perceptions, my views, my attitudes – arghhhh, you’ve changed my life! In ways I could never have imagined. And I’ve said it so many times to those I really care about; the distance means nothing when we’re close enough, we’ll cross paths again one day!
…..And to all those who think that travel is a waste of time, money and a way of running away from real life, you couldn’t be more wrong. Make the most of your time on this beautiful BIG world (yeah a holiday is a holiday, but there’s more out there than Spain and big cities) and honestly, money really isn’t everything – happiness and making time for yourself is what really matters.
“Travel is the only thing you buy, that makes YOU richer.”
We leave to travel Asia in a few hours, I will have officially lived the dream after this next trip. I just hope I don’t bore and annoy people with our photos and updates, sorry! just have to make the most of the wifi we get and let people know we’re alive and well. Plus it’s just so hard not to share the beautiful things I see and experience sometimes!
28th July we touch down in Manchester…. “Just hold on, we’re coming home” guys!
Shall see you all shortly, much love!
Apologies for the soppyness and terrible English, it’s 5am and I’ve barely slept with excitement!